Manspreading

Ajoshi Stereotypes

In a recent conversation, we were talking about stereotypes of ajummas (아줌마) and ajoshis (아저씨). Basically, an ajumma is a middle-aged woman and an ajoshi is a middle-aged man. It was interesting to hear a Korean’s perspective as foreigners also have a stereotypes of middle-aged to elderly people. When I think of an ajumma, I think of an shorter woman wearing pajama bottoms and a full face visor. In my mind’s eye I see her pushing ahead of me at the grocery store or subway station. When I think of an ajoshi, I think of an older dude doing something inappropriate like pissing in public, getting drunk under the bridge or bothering people. For the Korean I was talking to, an ajoshi likes to spread his legs on public transportation and not allow someone to sit next to him. I told her, “We have a name for that in English, manspreading.”

Meaning

Manspreading is the act of spreading your legs wide open while sitting down. It is a compound word combining “man” and “spreading”. It is most associated with men and is seen as rude. The problem with manspreading is that it makes sitting beside the person uncomfortable. Also, it is an ugly look.

Manspreading is a newer word to describe a societal issue that I am sure has been around much longer. The word arose during an anti-manspreading campaign on Tumblr in 2013. It appeared in an AmNY post in 2014 discussing the phenomenon. OxfordDicitonaries.com added the word to their database in 2015 while the earliest entry on urban dictionary dates to 2014.

 

Spread the Word

There was a controversial campaign where people posted pictures of people manspreading without the man’s consent. The numerous complaints have led some areas to ban manspreading. Notably, Madrid banned it in 2017 after receiving a petition with over 12,000 signatures. There has also been advertising campaigns to discourage men from spreading their legs. I like the slogan that Philadelphia came up with: “Dude, it’s Rude.”

There has also been some pushback against banning manspreading. Some people claim that because women have larger pelvises, it is easier for them to put their legs together. What do you think? Is it biological or just rude?

 

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Reference:

https://neologisms.blogs.wm.edu/2016/04/11/manspreading/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manspreading
https://www.amny.com/transit/man-spread-a-widening-blight-on-public-transportation-say-riders-1.9473786/
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=manspreading
https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/news-and-advice/mandspreading-madrid-spain-ban-public-transport-bus-metro-behaviour-etiquette-a7779041.html
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-40233435
https://www.boredpanda.com/men-leg-manspreading-explained-q-angle/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic

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